Welcome to (my) day 1 of the #SEND30DayChallenge – the inspiration of the fabulous Mum on a Mission blog found here: https://www.mumoam.co.uk/. Already a few days late, it may take me a while to get through the 30 (non consecutive) day challenge however I am determined to give it a go!
The World of Gorgeous Grace came about after I was writing for myself, finding it therapeutic but feeling like I wasn’t making a difference to the challenges we faced. I wanted to share our experiences and educate others, especially around being undiagnosed and the additional issues that this presented (More info on this can be found here:https://theworldofgorgeousgrace.com/2016/04/27/welcome-to-no-mans-land-undiagnosed/)
However, I wasn’t (and still am not) comfortable with sharing details of my daughter and our family with the wider world. A personal decision, but instinctively it has never felt right. Inevitably this made choosing a name a little more challenging.
Grace is a name that has always been special to me – my Grandma was known, although not registered, as Grace and I love the meaning of the word – wanting my blog to reflect that we try and take everything in the most positive way. My daughter is of course 100% gorgeous, her smile, the way her eyes light up, her giggle – everyone who meets her has described her as adorable or gorgeous – ‘Adorable Grace’ didn’t have quite the same ring to it as ‘Gorgeous Grace’ and therein the blog name was born.
Originally everything I wrote was rhyming – this was never intentional but just how my thoughts formed in the early days. I suspect a result of the amount of made up rhymes I sang to both GG and her younger brother – as much to keep me calm as them. Here’s the first blog I published as an example: https://theworldofgorgeousgrace.com/2014/10/08/introducing-gorgeous-grace-or-gg-for-short/. The blog has evolved since then and the topics I cover within the SEND world are varied.
I have had moments of questioning the name choice. I do challenge the anonymity decision from time to time – it makes Instagram and visuals quite tough, I have almost outed us by careless blogging at times (!) and I do worry people think I am hiding behind anonymity. However it still feels like the right decision and doesn’t seem to stop people from engaging with the blog. I have had a few inappropriate questions – sadly in our society the use of a woman’s name and the word ‘gorgeous’ can attract a certain clientele….these are fortunately few and far between, and have provided a little bit of humour, along the way.
The World of Gorgeous Grace has become part of my life now and I hope it will continue to be for many years to come. Many thanks to all those who have supported me to get this far.